Da-Gay-Gay

I HATE when I tell people I am Gay and they respond "How Do U know if you have never been with a Man before?" Being Gay is not like trying caviar, where u have to taste it, to know if you like it or not, that shit irks the fuck outta me. I know I'm Gay, I wouldn't say it, if I wasn't and I damn sure wouldn't fake it if I wasn't, that's just stupid. I know me and I know WHO I AM, and being gay is only part of me, not me as a person.

I have been doing some thinking lately about my life. I am Black and while growing up, my parents made it their duty to make sure I knew where I came from and participated in my culture. Well I am Gay, and the gay community has culture, events, and just everyday life that I would like to be apart of. I am a GAY Virgin, never have, never been, never was, with a man before, so I compiled a list of GAY things I would like to do before I'm 25.

1. Hold Hands with a Man.

2. Kiss A Man

3. Have Sex with a Man.

4. Fall in Love...yep with a Man.

5. Go to a House Ball.

6. Go to a Gay Club.

7. Go to Gay Pride.

8. Make a Gay BEST Friend.

9.Read a copy of Clik magazine

10. Meet Karamo Brown and tell him how much I LOVE and HATE him.

I'm not some sheltered, naive closet case. Just inexperienced, but hopefully with time I will find the light.