They Shoot Single People???

Hello people. I am new to this blogging thing, so I will apologize upfront for any mistakes I may make. B4 I begin I guess i should give a brief background of myself.

23 years old

B.A in Media Communications

Single

Black

Gay

Brother

Uncle

Son

I am single and gay, which is hard enough in itself. I don't know why im single, im a good looking guy, not to sound conceited or anything, but I am. The whole gay world confuses me anyway, it can be very superficial and shallow. I don't even know how im suppose to approach some guy when I don't know if he is gay or not. The DL dudes make it worse, I don't know who is who or what is what.

Im fine with being single, less stress for me. It would be nice to have somebody in my life, but right now im content. I just dont understand why it seems to be a problem for everybody else when its my life. I was chatting with an old friend of mine I met on yahoo way back, and I hadn't spoke to him in awhile. We got on the subject of relationships and the convo kinda went like this:

(edited short version)
Kaos:So how's ur significant other?

Soul:Pretty good. Im happy.

Kaos: That's good to hear man.

Soul: How's ur love life?

Kaos: Non-existent..

Soul: OH! Im so sorry to hear that man. (sad face)

Kaos: No need to be sorry, im doing just fine, im still happy. (wtf face)

Soul: Right......


Why the hell do I need pity because im single? Its plenty of unhappy people who aren't single, why do I have to join the club?